Memories

“The power of retaining and recalling past experience”

Why is that the memories generally haunt people rather than supporting them?

How many people remember the good things that has happened to them? how many curse their past memories?

Science simply says that it’s just the data in the system technically a history data which can be used for data analysis and interpretation.

But there is a aspect of the memory which is more psychological than being just termed and bundled as a data. This is a way the people develops their own beliefs, their thought processes.

Memories are the way people remain sane in this insane world.

Or in the movie “momento” the hero terms that memories can be altered and modified but not the facts. May be memories is too subjective to make of any sense to a third person.
It is the memory that makes us feel special .may be someone has really touched u in some ways that even u don’t know.

What happens if there is no experience , no experiencer no memories. Will this world be a better place.

Seems my thoughts are too much jumbled at this point of time.

Déjà vu

"is the experience of feeling sure that one has witnessed or experienced a new situation previously (an individual feels as though an event has already happened or has happened in the near past) "

"do u like me ?" she asked
" offcourse i like you !! thats why ur my best friend" he said.
"so do u have any other feelings for me " she asked.

This question was the point when it seemed to him that the entire cycle of life has repeated itself and he is in a situation he was never in but this was situation he was in as well.Interestingly getting confused with himself. he started to think about the exact situation ,it was difficult for him to concentrate on the current question asked by her.

it was crazy that some time back the exact scenario happened but he was asking questions rather than taking them , he started to remember the exact reply he got and he was pretty much sure that he is going to reply to the current context in the same way.

some devajua's gets mind confused but this one actually clarified long pending questions he had in mind and the way other person would have thought at that point of time and the way he felt at that point. the past and present were meeting eachother.

it was as tho his mind rewinded itself and it was giving answers to tough questions he was never able to answer or ask neone.. its amazing how life puts on in a situation to get answers that u always wanted to know.

Life sometimes blindfolds you and throws u in water and then after some time it opens the eyes and then shows up the reality.

but now the circumstances have changed and he was supposed to respond to her , but the point was that he got answer to the Questions asked by himself sometime back !!!!.

and he responded the same answer that he got sometime back fully understanding whats the answer was and how it would be taken by her...........................................

The Truth

"Always there is a right side of a argument and a true side as well"

Its strange how human mind thinks and acts , ways it can intreprete the same situation in several different ways.

i was talking to some people at a meeting at 2 different instances, i was wondering how the same point was tweaked so that one becomes the protagonist of the plot. It was amazing for me to hear the same story in 2 different view points and both of them sounded perfectly logical.Their was a small twist tho', the protagonist of one story was the anti-hero in the other version.

This may seem trivial for most but this illustrates the most important aspect of the mind. Its bent upon proving itself that its the best. The Ego embedded in itself always thinks about itself and reminds itself that the truth is that its version is perfect and always will remain so !

Simple example , if there was a marriage photo album or any other album for that matter , we will be seeing ourselves first even if we are in the background and not worry too much abt the others even if its the bride or groom.

whatever may be the reason, its the selfish and self loving attitude that makes the man to respect others so that we gets the respect to himself which in turn boasts his self image and there by his EGO.


Neways the point is that there is nothing called the absolute truth , it will be subjective and will continue to remain so...................................

Live Life

“ Whats the point in living this life? Is there meaning at all in living life ? “ these are questions which everyone have thought in some point of their life.

Belive me these are tougher questions.. even the greats didn’t answer, if at all they answered, it was either to satisfy their followers or bolster up their ego.

If u ask a bachelor , he’ll say “ macha, I just want to njoy life daa… I don’t care , I don’t bother about responsibilities, all I want to do is have lots of money and girls around.. that’s it “

Ask the same Question to a married man.. “ I live for my wife and children, I want to see them happy and satisfied.. I want to see my child growing up , getting a nice degree.. seeing them get married and settled” will be his answer..

But folks just think ..are we here to just to make money , flirt with girls , work for wife , work for children, take care of ailing parents..??

Yeah.. these upto a certain extent gives a little meaning to life .. but if u see in a overall perspective does it?

What happens if u die now.. do u think all the dependents will also die with u… wont they live their life…? Yaa.. 1 day .. 1 week .. 1 month .. 1 year… things will gradually change and they would get used to the reality and things will happen as it used to happen..

Am illustrating this fact to make u understand .. u shouldn’t think life will stop without you.. which in turn means you should not burden urselves with all these problems and think that you are warriors and saviours .
This clearly illustrates that these things are not the one which gives meaning to our life..

Then wat is it that gives meaning to this life.. ?

Yoga teaches us to concentrate and meditate .. the idea of meditation as all of u know is to increase the concentration and focus on the present..

Why should we focus on the present… it is to experience .. yes.. experience this current state of our being…

It is the experience that will give meaning to this life…go out .. do watever u feel like… experience..do watever u always want to do … take out this burden from ur back and learn to njoy the nature, kid’s smile , puppy playing on the street .bcoz it is that which will make you content..

Remember.. The only person who can give meaning to ur life is U .. none other…so “Live Life” on ur own terms..

Super Bitches

“ She is the greatest bitch the world had ever seen “

Crazy it sounds but this is how the best bitch is picked in a program called Bitch Diaries on [V]

And belive u me.. the greatest bitch on the given day was happy ;)

I bet the girls are happier being a simple and plain bitch.

On the other day I watched this movie called “WoodStock Villa” , the heroine was a bomb and offcourse a super bitch in the movie…She thinks she is too damn smart and tries to fool around men .. she thinks shez successful in doing so , but the hero of the movie outsmarts her in the nth moment… movie was a shit but I liked the last scene..
Its so typical of the girls to act smart forgetting the fact that men can outsmart them on any given day!!!

But why am I talking all this shit about girls…knowing very well that almost 60% of my blog audience are females ;)

All Feminist folks , please read ahead .. anyways u r gonna screw me, why not read fully and then scold me ;)

I have heard girls saying that all men are same … I agree .. if gals are bitches whats wrong with guys becoming dogs...point rt ?

Am not being judgemental about gals just that these are my plain opinions sometimes .

Gals generally tend to be oppurtunists, looking out for best options around always.. which in not all false … its good but my point why all hungaama when men do the same…?

Pls don’t think that I don’t have any regards for gals… I rate bitches and prostitutes slightly higher than the GodMans around .. that’s the different topic which we’ll talk in someother post.

Just few random thoughts .. I actually don’t bother if it hurts someone..am sure it wont ;)

The Touch

“ Hey…………. Where are you going…? Don’t u have any manners or patience. How can you leave a gal in this place and go? “

Her hands outreached towards him... Given a chance he would leave her there and move forward . this is after the bitter experience he had with girls. He hated girls from bottom of his heart… period.

He had no option but to hold her and take her along. He felt for her , Her hand so delicate, her feel so unique.

“ Why should girls be dependent on guys , why cant they be normal and independent “ he taught.

“ How can a stranger till yday can order me where to go , how to proceed. Where to halt , where to see “ lost in the thought , he could have easily told her to mind her own business.But he was not able to . her innocent face .. her lit up clear eyes didn’t allow him to say that.

Suddenly there was a rainfall and she was feeling cold, they went inside a bush.. She fitted her fingers into his fingers and made herself warm.He had to keep all his emotions under check since she was innocent and didn’t know what she was doing . He managed to act sane , by then by gods grace rain stopped and he was relived to have come of that tough situation.

After that he managed to stay away from her, but he would not forget “The Touch”

Junoon - the Obsession

There were two related experiences this week , that lead me to write this blog.

While watching the first match of IPL between Royal chalengers Bangalore and Knight Riders Kolkata , I somehow found myself supporting Bangalore. I was critising any shot played by the kolkata players and praising the bangalore boys for no reason.
The player whom I used to admire the most Sourav ganguly suddenly was on the opposite side and I wanted him to get out .
I was obsessed with Bangalore and felt crasily mad when they hopelessly lost the match.

Is that bcoz Bangalore lost .. nop.. its bcoz the “I” lost , my ego lost…

Other day I went for a movie called “U me aur hum” , ajay devgan the protagonist says that our body works in “ self defense mechanism” which means that our ego or the so called “I” will drive you in crunch situations no matter what you think.
This says that when mother is drowning with her child , she will try to save her child till the nth moment. But in the end she will try to save herself by drowning the child.

What I meant here is to say that every part of us is selfish. We are all obsessed with ourselves. But we portray the picture that we are selfless, nature friendly, compassinate.

Assume the case where ur hand is poisoned and have to ampute it to save u from dying, you will do it since we are by nature selfish!!!!!

So why should we act saying that we are saints , gods, etc. etc..
I think all these words are bullshit… period.

It would be better to accept that we are animals and start living a truthful life , lets break this duality we have in us, lets show our true self to the world , atleast we would be one with the nature and not hopelessly out of it.

So its ok to be selfish, self centered.. bcoz that’s the way we have been designed, let the nature take control , let us not dictate terms to the nature by saying that we are the most precious species of this planet..

Lets accept this fact … half of our problem will be fixed, half of the solution will be known.
Lets accept that we are afterall animals and we are shamelessly obsessed with ourselves.